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How Your View of God Affects Your Life and Relationships
There’s a hunger in the human heart that no amount of success, achievement, or distraction can satisfy. Mother Teresa, who spent her life caring for the dying and destitute, made a startling observation: “The greatest disease in the West today is not TB or leprosy; it is being unwanted, unloved and uncared for.”

Bob Hayes
Mar 146 min read


How Your Perception Shapes Your Life: Understanding God’s Character and True Freedom
Discover how your perception shapes reality. Explore God's true character—merciful, gracious, generous, and forgiving—through the powerful metaphor of light versus darkness. Learn how what we consume transforms us and find the freedom that comes from walking boldly in God's love. Your perspective changes everything.

Bob Hayes
Mar 38 min read


Beyond Money: Finding True Fulfillment and Lasting Purpose
Stop trading your life for things that won't last. Discover three types of wealth that truly matter: authentic love, inner freedom, and purposeful service. Build a legacy that endures.

Bob Hayes
Feb 178 min read


Power in Pause: Discovering God’s Heart Through Sacred Stillness
Ever feel like you keep falling into the same patterns, making the same mistakes? Jesus taught us to pray, “Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil”—because He knows we need help. And that’s not weakness; it’s wisdom. In Part 3 of our prayer series, discover how to pray when you’re struggling, why God understands your weaknesses, and practical ways to ask for His protection and strength. You don’t have to face your battles alone.

Nathan Stearman
Jan 227 min read


How to Pray When You Don’t Know What to Say: A Simple Framework (Part 3)
Ever feel like you keep falling into the same patterns, making the same mistakes? Jesus taught us to pray, “Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil”—because He knows we need help. And that’s not weakness; it’s wisdom. In Part 3 of our prayer series, discover how to pray when you’re struggling, why God understands your weaknesses, and practical ways to ask for His protection and strength. You don’t have to face your battles alone.

Bob Hayes
Nov 19, 20257 min read


How to Pray When You Don’t Know What to Say: A Simple Framework (Part 2)
Whether you’re exploring spirituality for the first time or looking to deepen your existing practice, this practical framework can transform how you connect with something bigger than yourself—and with your own authentic self.

Bob Hayes
Oct 30, 20258 min read


How to Pray When You Don't Know What to Say: A Simple Framework (Part 1)
What if prayer isn't about getting the words right, but about honest conversation with someone who actually wants to hear from you? Explore the first few lines of Jesus' famous teaching on prayer—the "Our Father"—in a way that's practical and accessible, even if you've never prayed before or haven't in years.

Bob Hayes
Oct 5, 20256 min read


God with Us: Prayer as Real Conversation
At its core, prayer is simply communication between you and God. Think of it like this: good communication leads to understanding, understanding builds trust, and trust deepens love.

Bob Hayes
Sep 23, 20255 min read


Clickbait Religion: Why Jesus Condemned Religious Performance
A thoughtful exploration of external religious practice vs deep, inner transformation revealed in a life of love for others.

Bob Hayes
Sep 12, 20255 min read


When God Disappoints Your Expectations: Understanding Divine Plans vs Human Dreams
This article explores how God often disappoints our human expectations by offering something different—and ultimately better—than what we originally wanted or prayed for, using Jesus's Sermon on the Mount as a key example. It provides practical guidance for navigating spiritual disappointment by examining our expectations, staying open to transformation, and trusting that God's plans may transcend our limited perspective.

Bob Hayes
Aug 15, 20257 min read


Breaking Chains: A Journey from Addiction to Purpose
Summary: Joe’s journey from childhood fears to alcohol addiction, rock bottom, and ultimate redemption through faith and recovery. If you or someone you know is struggling with addiction, this story offers hope that no one is beyond the reach of healing.

Bob Hayes
Jul 10, 202512 min read


The Revolutionary Power of Loving Your Enemies
In our increasingly polarized world, where political divisions seem insurmountable and cultural battles rage daily, an ancient teaching offers a radical solution that challenges everything we think we know about dealing with conflict. It’s a concept so countercultural that it made people want to kill the messenger—and it's just as revolutionary today.

Bob Hayes
Jun 4, 20254 min read


Breaking the Cycle: Living Beyond Retaliation
In this volatile context, Jesus offered something revolutionary. Rather than feeding their desire for vengeance, he pointed to a radically different path that would break the endless cycle of retaliation ...

Bob Hayes
May 15, 20256 min read


Resting in God’s Wild Love: Finding Peace in a Restless World
Find lasting peace in God's wild love, not shallow escapes. Part 4 of SMAR: living fully known and fully loved by the divine.

Bob Hayes
Apr 4, 20255 min read


Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life
At LoveShaped Life, we’ve discovered four transformative principles for living a life shaped by love ...

Bob Hayes
Feb 27, 20254 min read


Break Free from Religious Baggage in 2025
In 2014, the ice bucket challenge went viral on social media to raise awareness and funds for the ALS foundation, also known as Lou...

Bob Hayes
Jan 21, 20255 min read


A Fresh Start: Learning from Space Debris
[The following blog post is a duplicate of our New Year’s, subsribers-only email. We hope you’ll consider subscribing for weekly...

Nathan Stearman
Dec 28, 20243 min read


Who is God, Really? Understanding God through Jesus.
When Jesus came to Earth, He wasn’t just another religious teacher or philosopher. He was God Himself, stepping into our world to show us ex

Bob Hayes
Dec 19, 20243 min read


Seeing Deeply: The Power of Biblical Meditation
When we meditate on God’s promises, we see ourselves through His eyes: deeply valued, fully accepted, known by name, protected, and provided

Bob Hayes
Nov 5, 20243 min read


The Life-Changing Power of Seeing God
Knowing God’s love extends beyond factual knowledge; it involves personal experience.

Bob Hayes
Oct 22, 20243 min read
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